However simple or sophisticated the wedding is expected to be, brides are always concerned with their wedding day’s pomp and don’t like leaving anything to chance. A real bride will step out of her way to see that all her wishes are observed and that nothing stands between her and her weddings success. No wonder most of the brides easily get stressed-out and just wish that people in their lives could understand the attachment between them and their weddings. Whether you are her friend, relative or fiancé you’ve got to be careful of the things you say to the already stressed-out bride. And the last person she’d expect not to know this would be her fiancé. Spare her from the following burden.
What your mother thinks about the wedding.
As she gets ready with the wedding arrangement you should not be telling her your mother’s suggestion about the wedding. If your mother has new ideas to introduce to the wedding arrangements, however inspiring they could be she’d better withhold them or you subtly buy them as your own. Brides don’t like guys who are so much in their mother’s counsel.
That you want the wedding budget overhauled.
Regardless of how much you think some elements in her wedding are unnecessary, you are likely to be sending wrong signals in your suggestion to revise or overhaul the wedding budget. Many things may appear unnecessary in your eyes but unavoidable in hers.
That you may not make it for wedding rehearsal
Whether it’s a big joke or that you want to test her wits, as the fiancé, you’d better try something funnier, this is not funny at all. You’d appear to not understand the efforts she has put in all this time.
That the wedding planner is suggesting for a change of wedding venue.
Before any bride-to-be chooses a venue there are so many things that have to inform her into making the choice. The planner may have a point but you must be careful mentioning it to her. If you must though, you’ve got to appease her, may be with a very gentle hand on her shoulders, unless both of your hands are holding chocolate.
That you don’t understand her theme
You don’t have to. She only knows why she had to incorporate it. She understands the color’s tone and accents better than you. After all, aren’t all men said to be color blind?
That a wedding is just a day’s event, and that she ought to relax.
While you may be justified to believe so, it doesn’t have to be seemingly so with her. It’s more than just being a day’s event. It’s all about her passion.
That you were considering a review on your plans for honeymoon
If you must think of changing your honeymoon destination, then keep it as a surprise. You’ll only be making things worse by your long explanation, and she may not even understand.That you fear for a sudden change of weather around the wedding date.
You are not a weatherman, are you? You don’t have to scare her off. Even if you fear a hurricane may coincide with the wedding date, you don’t have to announce. Leave it to the weather department.
Never mention to the stressed-out bride to be that your ex might attend the wedding, unless you are prepared to bear the consequences.
That you never thought that this day would eventually come to be or that you think it came so soon.